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To start the night
What are good “would you rather” questions to start the night?
Low-stakes choices that get everyone laughing and talking right away, even when not everyone knows each other yet.
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Would you rather put pineapple on every pizza you eat or never eat pizza again?
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Would you rather always have 10% battery or always have a slow connection?
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Would you rather sing everything you say for a whole night or speak only in rhymes for a whole night?
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Would you rather be able to rewind 10 seconds or be able to pause everyone for 10 seconds?
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Would you rather always arrive 20 minutes early or always arrive 20 minutes late?
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Would you rather burst out laughing at every serious moment or cry at every emotional ad?
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Would you rather have your friends hear your secret playlist or have them see your middle school photos?
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Would you rather never listen to music again or never watch a TV series again?
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Would you rather have a “skip” button for awkward conversations or have a “replay” button for your best moments?
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Would you rather have a sweet late-night snack or have a salty late-night snack?
To test your friendships
What “would you rather” questions should you ask your friends?
Loyalty, small embarrassments and group life: find out who dares to tell their friends the truth.
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Would you rather read your best friend’s mind for a day or have your best friend read yours for a day?
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Would you rather have a friend who always tells you the truth, even when it hurts or have a friend who always backs you up, even when you’re wrong?
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Would you rather know what your friends really say about you or never find out?
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Would you rather organize every party for your group or never be allowed to organize one again?
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Would you rather go on vacation with your ex or go on vacation with your in-laws?
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Would you rather have your mom comment on all your photos or have your boss like all your photos?
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Would you rather let your friends pick your outfits for a month or let them pick your haircut for a year?
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Would you rather be the friend who tells all the stories or be the friend everyone tells stories about?
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Would you rather have one friend for life or have a hundred friends to party with?
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Would you rather have your group see your search history or have them listen to your last ten voice messages?
To turn up the heat
What are good “would you rather” questions about love and dating?
Crushes, exes, first dates and declarations: choices that make people blush without going too far.
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Would you rather date someone who’s hot and dumb or date someone who’s smart and ugly?
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Would you rather have your crush read all your draft messages or have them see how many times you’ve watched their stories?
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Would you rather have a perfect first date that goes nowhere or have a disastrous first date that turns into a relationship?
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Would you rather invite your ex to your birthday or go to your ex’s birthday?
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Would you rather be single for the rest of your life or lose one hand?
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Would you rather receive a declaration of love in public or make a declaration of love in public?
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Would you rather date your best friend or never speak to them again?
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Would you rather flirt only in emojis or flirt only in movie quotes?
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Would you rather have your friends find out who your crush is or have your crush find out the nickname you use for them?
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Would you rather be with someone jealous but very caring or be with someone very independent but distant?
Among adults you trust
What are spicy “would you rather” questions for adults?
Ten dilemmas for a group that knows each other well. Anyone can pass, no debate.
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Would you rather cheat or get cheated on?
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Would you rather do it in an elevator or do it in the stairwell?
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Would you rather be in front of the camera for a sex tape or be behind the camera filming it?
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Would you rather have a threesome with two strangers or have a threesome with two people at this party?
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Would you rather have your parents find your sexts or find your parents’ sexts?
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Would you rather do it in a public place and risk getting caught or do it in the next room at a party, where everyone can hear?
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Would you rather sleep with your ex one last time or sleep once with your ex’s best friend?
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Would you rather swap partners for a night with your best friends who are a couple or hear them having sex all night through the wall?
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Would you rather dominate or be dominated?
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Would you rather have everyone here know your exact number of partners or have everyone here know your wildest fantasy?
Your turn
How do you play “Would you rather” at a party?
One person reads the dilemma out loud, counts to three, and everyone shows their pick at the same time: left hand for the first option, right hand for the second. Nobody can change their mind after seeing the others. Whoever ends up in the minority defends their choice in one sentence, then the next person reads the following dilemma.
To spice things up, the minority draws one of our forfeits for the loser. For a long-distance night, everyone plays on this page and sends their challenge to the others: the link compares your answers one by one. And if the group wants more, WillYouDare also hides “this or that?” dilemmas among its Truths and Questions, next to the dares, roles and secret missions. The Truth or Dare rules explain how it all fits together.
3 tips for writing your own
What makes a good “would you rather” question?
How do you write a good dilemma?
Two short, concrete options of equal weight. If everyone answers the same way, the dilemma has failed: the best ones split the group in two and start a story.
Why keep it concrete?
You should be able to picture the scene in a second. “Your mom comments on all your photos” gets more reactions than “being embarrassed in public”: the more specific the dilemma, the funnier the answers.
Should you aim at the people around the table?
Yes, that’s what makes it personal: an ex, a friend in the room, tonight’s party. A variant: guess what your neighbor would pick, then let them confirm, just like the Questions in WillYouDare.